With everything that I have
learned so far in this course about culture and diversity, I was very curious
to hear what others would have to say about these topics. Honestly, before I
took this course this is something that would take me a minute to talk about so
I could gather my thoughts. I think culture and diversity is something we come
in contact with on a daily basis but not topics we tend to talk about all the
time. Or maybe I should say they are topics that hit us in the face but not
something we think deeply about. Each one of the people I contacted was
different in their age, religion, and ethnicity. One of my friends I had to
email and when I received her response I really enjoyed reading it and how she
viewed culture and diversity. I wanted to share the email and her response to
everyone. Here it is:
“When I think of "culture" I visualize different races, their
customs and beliefs. My family is of Italian descent and examples of our
culture are large Sunday family dinners consisting of macaroni and gravy, loud
conversations that may appear to others as arguing, and a lot of affection and
love. I live in a neighborhood which is primarily occupied by those of
Indian descent. I enjoy observing their culture. I see women who are
attentive mothers and wives. Women who seem to be more passive than American
women and men who work hard to provide for their families. Their dress,
their cooking, religion and their language are all part of their culture. “
“Diversity is the
differences in our cultures. Diversity, in the recent years, has become a
word synonymous with "tolerance for differences in people." I
am a strong proponent of loving people for who they are, and not judging on
cultural differences. I believe that you can learn from, teach and love
people from all walks of life.”
I
love the example she gave of her loud conversations with her family and how it could
be seen by others as arguing. Without knowing her family and her culture it is
impossible to know that is normal conversation to them and nothing is wrong.
This is why I feel it is so important to take the time to get to know others
that are different, inquire about their culture and ask questions. We will
never know anything unless questions are asked. Someone could go their whole
life thinking this family hated one another because they assumed what they
heard was arguing.
The
other two people involved in this assignment gave an answer about culture and
diversity that were very similar. They defined culture as the traditions people
hold, how they celebrate holidays and which ones they do, where they come from,
meaning race and ethnicity and the language they speak. They spoke about
diversity as the differences between people and how we come together and accept
everyone. I received the old saying “we all put our pants on one leg at a time”
which I think fits pretty well. They both also said they wouldn’t live their
lives as certain people chose to, but they respect them and accept them for who
they are.
I
got the impression that we still think a lot about surface culture when asked
how you define culture. We instantly think about the holidays people celebrate
and the language they speak, as did two of the people I spoke to instantly
said. We don’t tend to see deep culture because we don’t take the time to see
that far into people’s lives and families. I agree with the last sentence written by my
friend in her email, “I believe that you can learn from, teach and love people
from all walks of life”. I just don’t think we take the time to learn from
others and dig deeper into the lives of others to expand our knowledge of the
diversity and cultures around us.